Why the scapegoat's rebellion might actually be a good thing. #familydysfunction

Sometimes rebellion begins as something healthy. A child may look around at the family system and recognize that something is wrong. They may refuse to keep pretending, stay silent, or go along with a house where people hurt each other and call it normal. That kind of rebellion can be a protest against dishonesty, abuse, and pain that no one else is willing to recognize. It may not always come out perfectly. But underneath it, there may be a part of that child saying, “I don’t want to live inside the lie anymore.” You may not have been able to change what happened in your family, but with the right support, you can begin to understand your response and heal what it cost you.