ADHD, toxic partners, and “losing your sparkle” (Reddit Reactions)

For more on this topic: Listen: ADHD, cheating, and weaponized incompetence https://www.understood.org/en/podcasts/missunderstood/sorry-i-missed-this-reddit-reactions-adhd-cheating-and-weaponized Watch: ADHD and people-pleasing http://youtube.com/watch?v=bmXCTN_NupE&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.understood.org%2F&embeds_referring_origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.understood.org&source_ve_path=Mjg2NjY Read: What IS weaponized incompetence? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/transforming-the-status-quo/202510/weaponized-incompetence-when-helplessness-becomes-control Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:00 A sparkle-stealing husband 04:10 Is it ADHD… or a toxic partner? 08:20 ADHD shame spiral: “I can’t do anything right!” 11:40 Clutter blindness and burnout For a transcript and more resources, visit Sorry, I Missed This on Understood.org. You can also email us at [email protected]. Questions about learning and thinking differences? Get answers and expert-vetted resources by asking the AI-powered Understood Assistant: https://www.understood.org/en/assistant?utm_medium=organic&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=assistant-agn-prod&utm_content=video Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at https://www.understood.org/en/donate?sc=SIMT0725YTO&utm_medium=organic&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=fundraising-agn-vid-sorryimissedthis&utm_content=video For more resources, support, and excellent memes, subscribe to our YouTube channel or follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/understoodorg/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Understood/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@understood.org Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/understoodorg/ #ADHDRelationships #NeurodivergentLife #RedditStories #ADHDWomen #RelationshipAdvice