How to Quit Fighting in Your Marriage | Dan Seaborn

What if your marriage could be peaceful — even during disagreements? In this powerful and honest message, Dan Seaborn shares how God transformed his own marriage after decades of short tempers, constant arguments, and emotional distance. Through relatable stories and biblical wisdom, Dan reveals practical, Christ-centered tools that help couples stop fighting, truly listen, and build deep emotional and spiritual connection. You’ll learn: 🔹How inviting Jesus into conflict changes everything 🔹Why most marriage arguments aren’t worth fighting over 🔹How to listen to your spouse’s heart, not just their words 🔹Why trying to “fix” your spouse creates more damage 🔹How self-control, humility, and friendship lead to peace This teaching is for husbands, wives, engaged couples, and anyone who wants a marriage that honors God and grows stronger over time. Get your copy of Dan Seaborn's book, The Necessary Nine, here: https://bit.ly/4aJiLmn --- Chapters: 0:00 – The problem of constant conflict in marriage 2:10 – Why most arguments are actually insignificant 6:30 – The turning point: “I just want peace with you” 9:10 – Inviting Jesus into disagreements (The empty chair) 12:20 – Learning to truly listen to your spouse 17:40 – Stop trying to change your spouse 24:20 – The power of self-control and lowering your voice 27:30 – From roommates to confidants: redefining marriage --- Check out Focus on the Family on social media! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/focusonthefamily Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/focusonthefamily X: https://twitter.com/FocusFamily --- #FocusontheFamily #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #ChristCenteredMarriage #MarriageSermon #HealthyMarriage #ChristianRelationships #MarriageHelp ---