Should You Have Sex On The First Date? | The Hook Up Podcast
Feb 23, 2026•Channel
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Published3 months ago
Duration37:20
Video IDVmPdbEcgJ3E
Languageen
CategoryEntertainment
PrivacyPublic
Made for KidsNo
Video TypeRegular Video
Performance Metrics
Views683
Likes12
Comments0
Engagement Rate1.76%
Likes per 100 views1.76
Comments per 1K views0.00
Description
Everyone knows about the “3 date rule”, but is it always worth the wait? We find out why you’re holding off sex or diving right in, if there’s a magic number of dates before getting intimate and whether having sex too soon can stop a relationship in it’s tracks.
SHOW NOTES
YouGov Survey on how long you should wait before having sex:
https://today.yougov.com/society/articles/37341-relationships-dating-marriage-sex-milestones-poll?utm_source=chatgpt.com
Studies on first-date sex impacting relationships:
https://www.datingadvice.com/studies/fdshlt
https://www.mamamia.com.au/sex-on-first-date/
Differing relationship outcomes when sex happens before, on, or after first dates
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23121225/
00:00 - intro
04:07 - are you waiting or not?
07:20 - why you’re waiting
11:52 - why you’re not waiting
21:32 - is there a magic number?
24:14 - does early sex stop a relationship?
29:19 - research on early sex
32:40 - there are no rules
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