#1 Way to Get Your Family to LISTEN | Becky Harling

On this episode of Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, Becky Harling sits down to share how the simple act of listening can transform your relationships, deepen connection, and reflect Christ’s love in everyday conversations. Most of us think we’re good listeners—but what if we’re missing the very thing that makes others feel truly loved? Becky unpacks why listening is a skill that must be trained, how our distractions and desire to “fix” people get in the way, and what it looks like to be fully present with those who matter most. Through powerful personal stories and practical wisdom, she reveals how intentional listening can bring healing, intimacy, and even life-changing moments. 🔹 Why feeling heard is closely tied to feeling loved 🔹 Common signs you’re not listening as well as you think 🔹 Practical steps to become a more intentional listener 🔹 How to stop “fixing” and start understanding 🔹 The spiritual impact of truly hearing others Get your copy of Becky Harling's book, "How to Listen, So People Will Talk" here: https://bit.ly/4djXnWf --- Chapters: 0:00 – Why Feeling Heard Equals Feeling Loved 2:45 – Training Yourself to Truly Listen 5:30 – The Spiritual Power of Listening 8:15 – A Marriage Changed by Listening 11:00 – Stop Fixing, Start Understanding 13:45 – The Five Bs of Great Listening 16:30 – Recognizing Life-Changing Moments 19:15 – The Lasting Impact of Listening Well --- Check out Focus on the Family on social media! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/focusonthefamily Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/focusonthefamily X: https://twitter.com/FocusFamily --- #FocusontheFamily #BeckyHarling #CommunicationSkills #HealthyRelationships #ChristianLiving #MarriageAdvice #ParentingTips #EmotionalConnection #FaithInAction #ListenWell