"I love my husband who hates me"

We've all seen this trend over the last few months, typically a woman shares something demeaning, dismissive or bad her husband did vents about it online looking for commiseration or confirmation that no, she's not overreacting. And the comments are quickly telling her to "just leave" and that she's pathetic for enabling this behavior... Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard's relationship has been called out that she "cool girled" her way into a bad relationship. Selena Gomez kissed Benny Blanco's feet and it's been equated to a humiliation ritual. And then Louis Theroux has just come out with his new documentary "into the manosphere" and I couldn't help but focus on the women these men have by their side and this entire concept of "one sided monogamy" where one party is the clear winner and it's certainly not her. We have a LOT to talk about today, lets get into it! Resources: USA: https://www.domesticshelters.org/help#?page=1 https://rainn.org/ https://www.thehotline.org/ Canada: https://www.casw-acts.ca/en/resources/domestic-violence-resources NZ: https://womensrefuge.org.nz/ https://www.2shine.org.nz/get-help/helpline/ UK: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ https://www.refuge.org.uk/ Australia: https://www.respect.gov.au/services/ Other international resources: http://safeandtogetherinstitute.com/international-domestic-violence-resources/ Let's connect: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/BryonyClaire IG: https://www.instagram.com/bryonyclaire_vegan/?hl=en business enquiries only: [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 intro 04:45 minimize yourself and the lessons we have been taught 11:57 Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard - he's just Ken 17:49 The manosphere and the women it hurts 27:28 You deserve what you tolerate 36:43 Final thoughts @coffeeandcults https://youtu.be/RpTqw3M5uXY?si=7vlTIzkt30zkqqn4 @KatBlaque https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3buXUIz2Amk Book referenced: Rage Becomes Her - Soraya Chemaly Books I've seen recommended: Run Like Hell - Nadine Macaluso Everything I never dreamed - Ruth Glenn Kapman Drama Triangle: https://www.attachmentproject.com/psychology/drama-triangle/  Trauma Bonding: https://continuumoutpatient.com/address-trauma-bonding-impact/ tiktok/reel credits in order of appearance: tinamariej444 https://www.tiktok.com/@tinamariej444/video/7554023389929753869 Kathleen.rowan.co https://www.instagram.com/p/DVqbSXREnLS/?hl=en i_am_mum_bum https://www.instagram.com/p/DVq-wddCIYM/?hl=en  Alina Brock https://www.instagram.com/p/DVM7ZnfjxNJ/?hl=en  Tillyoblack https://www.instagram.com/p/DUwN0zSkW5c/?hl=en  Possumgirl https://www.instagram.com/p/DPxuQk0Dmh-/?hl=en  the_yv_edit https://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edit/video/7564529229367348493?q=kristen%20dax&t=1773681756292 Abby Eckel https://www.instagram.com/p/DTEDvofgKo3/?hl=en Sources:  https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/kristen-bell-accused-downplaying-domestic-145154512.html  https://www.thecut.com/article/i-love-my-husband-who-hates-me.html  https://texaslawhelp.org/article/divorce-when-a-spouse-is-pregnant. https://thetab.com/2026/03/13/the-reason-myron-split-from-his-one-way-monogamy-girlfriend-angie-after-louis-therouxs-doc https://www.abs.gov.au/articles/childhood-abuse-increases-risk-violence-adulthood https://lundybancroft.com/state-of-domestic-violence-services/, https://cryingoutforjustice.blog/2025/01/30/lundy-bancroft-is-a-predator/ https://www.politico.com/news/2026/01/10/heritage-foundation-calls-on-us-to-prioritize-marriage-and-family-in-new-report-00721153 https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/mar/11/what-is-pronatalism-right-wing-republican https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-features/republican-lawmakers-child-marriage-abortion-1235018777/ https://msmagazine.com/2026/01/23/survivor-domestic-violence-trump-admin-simultaneously-slashes-housing-vawa-funds/ https://knowledge.unwomen.org/sites/default/files/2025-10/at-risk-and-underfunded-how-funding-cuts-are-threatening-efforts-to-end-violence-against-women-and-girls-en.pdf https://www.dw.com/en/misogyny-manosphere-influencers-with-millions-of-followers/a-73060131 https://www.childhood.org.au/still-unseen-and-ignored/#:~:text=Take%20Action%20in%20Your%20Community,community%2C%20not%20just%20our%20own. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/19392397.2019.1630155 https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/how-megan-thee-stallions-court-battle-highlights-misogyny-targeting-black-women https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/mar/18/evan-rachel-wood-marilyn-manson-documentary-phoenix-rising https://www.pcadv.org/blog/kanye-behavior-toward-kim-is-abuse-not-entertainment/ https://journals.law.harvard.edu/crcl/how-defamation-is-used-to-silence-survivors/ https://www.attachmentproject.com/psychology/trauma-response-types/ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/aug/21/it-felt-shameful-the-profound-loneliness-of-modern-motherhood https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a70314620/loneliness-epidemic-women/