If you struggle to open up, watch this | Mel Robbins #Shorts

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — If you feel like you’re “close” to people but still feel really disconnected, this might be why. Harvard Business School professor and behavioral scientist Dr. Leslie John says most of us worry so much about oversharing that we end up doing the opposite - we undershare, and it erodes our relationships. She explains that a life of undersharing is a life of missed opportunities: friendships that never deepen, colleagues who never fully trust you, and relationships that stay surface‑level even after years together. Her advice? Do an audit. Ask yourself: What might I be missing by holding back? In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Dr. Leslie John breaks down the science of connection. She teaches you how to tell the difference between being private and being closed off, why staying silent and holding back feels safer than really it is, and the exact decision-making tool Dr. John teaches at Harvard Business School - so you always know when to speak up and when to stay quiet. Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/5R7EOZ5AbHg — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah