The myth of chivalry 🛡❤👀

Chivalry is dead! What ever happened to the knights in shining armor doing chivalrous deeds? What happened to ladies first? There are glimpses like when the male cast of sinners helped out their female costars to accept an award, Jacob Elordi trying to save Margot Robbie from the rain...but in everyday life? People won't even hold the door open for you. Where have the gentlemen gone? What about the code of chivalry? I was lucky enough to get Dr Eleanor Janega to help me with some questions on this topic, yes, I brought in an expert because there's far more to all of this than you might think! Let's connect: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/BryonyClaire IG: https://www.instagram.com/bryonyclaire_vegan/?hl=en business enquiries only: [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 intro 01:49 Chivalrous knights of medieval times 12:38 "women and children first" 18:21 Where are the gentlemen? 27:10 final thoughts Dr Eleanor Janega: https://eleanorjanega.com/# The Once and Future Sex - Dr Eleanor Janega Book recommended: The Will to change - bell hooks Videos referenced: @cosmonautvarietyhour https://youtu.be/vRz46mXvUEI?si=j3Tv5WKLOIiMpuGH The Tragedy Of Man (2011) Marcell Jankovics (Creator Of Hungarian Folk Tales) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1tWGk3yrAo @HistoryHit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TwPqHzCGgGM&t=5337s history hit what did medieval women wear? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBdp9-kPmM4&t=1643s Merra https://www.instagram.com/merra_offi/reels/ haliwoodundead: https://www.tiktok.com/@haliwoodundead/video/7576813124880256287?q=chivalry&t=1774030759184 keylimelanna: https://www.tiktok.com/@keylimelanna/video/7444978193917873451 Sources: https://www.theguardian.com/media/2012/oct/09/jimmy-savile-knighthood https://www.history.com/articles/chivalry-knights-middle-ages https://www.artrenewal.org/artists/edmund-blair-leighton/844 https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/tommy-robinson-womens-groups-reject-euro-election-bid-2/ https://survivorsnetwork.org.uk/survivors-are-not-political-pawns/ https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/sep/19/go-to-trope-how-the-far-right-are-exploiting-violence-against-women-and-girls https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jul/26/two-in-five-arrested-for-last-summers-uk-riots-had-been-reported-for-domestic-abuse https://www.instagram.com/bxttydempsey/reel/DOlErYIDD_D/ https://theconversation.com/1-in-3-men-report-using-intimate-partner-violence-heres-how-we-can-better-protect-women-and-help-men-258058 https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/feb/12/italy-migration-giorgia-meloni-borders-naval-blockades-bill https://insights.masterworks.com/art/artists/picasso-his-muses-the-women-that-made-his-career/ https://unherd.com/2022/03/how-pablo-picasso-abused-his-muses/ https://www.hrw.org/news/2026/03/06/as-womens-rights-are-dismantled-so-is-democracy https://msmagazine.com/2026/03/17/womens-rights-democracy-csw-70-united-nations-gender-girls-health/ https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/sep/30/pregnancy-us-women-crimes-study https://miniszterelnok.hu/en/this-government-protected-hungary-from-migration/ https://www.lemonde.fr/en/international/article/2025/10/01/in-western-germany-the-afd-is-increasingly-appealing-to-women_6745963_4.html https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2dl5j0w23o https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/dec/04/women-right-to-vote-disenfranchisement https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c785nm5g5y1o https://www.buzzfeed.com/leylamohammed/most-and-least-chivalrous-moments-from-famous-men https://www.historic-uk.com/CultureUK/Women-Children-First/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SS_Arctic_disaster https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/discussion/shipwrecked-women-and-children-first https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3421183/ https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/02/women-stop-linking-asylum-seekers-sexual-abuse https://www.instagram.com/reels/DQEhg1JEtts/ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/02/120202093836.htm https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c62r4g590wqo