to be loved is to be understood, but to be human is to change

Use code olisunvia at https://incogni.com/olisunvia to get an exclusive 60% off! can you be loved without being understood? at the same time, it's inevitable that people change -- often in significant and unexpected ways. love itself tends to change us. how can we resolve the tension between being understood and being a subject? ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* i'd love to hear what you all have to say *:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ✧ TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 "love" as "understanding" (a material analysis) 9:44 the tension between "love" & "understanding" 12:16 sartre: the "self" as both object & subject 15:34 mid attempt to resolve the tension? ★・・・・・★・・・・・★ If you want extra ways to support my channel and get more content, check out my PATREON: patreon.com/oliSUNvia socials: ,, instagram: @olisunvia FOR BUSINESS INQUIRIES: [email protected] EDITOR: @daikohi and IG: @douglxs_m ★・・・・・★・・・・・★ SOURCES: Caudwell, Christopher. (1938). "Love. A Study in Changing Values." *Studies in a Dying Culture*. https://www.marxists.org/archive/caudwell/1938/studies/ch06.htm Ebert, Teresa L. (1999). "Alexandra Kollontai and Red Love." https://www.marxists.org/history/etol/newspape/atc/1724.html Kollantai, Alexandra. "Love and the New Morality." https://www.marxists.org/archive/kollonta/1911/new-morality.htm ----- "The Loves of Three Generations." https://www.marxists.org/archive/kollonta/1929/great/ch03.htm ----- "Make way for Winged Eros: A Letter to Working Youth." https://www.marxists.org/archive/kollonta/1923/winged-eros.htm Lopez-Cantero, Pilar. (2023). "Three stages of love, narrative, and self-understanding." In *Emotional Self-Knowledge.* NY: Routledge. Min, Anselm K. (2010). "Loving without understanding: Raimon Panikkar’s ontological pluralism." https://rdcu.be/eWEQx tags: love, understanding, to be loved is to be understood, i remember, romance, i love you but i don't understand you, you love me but you don't like me, AI, dating chatgpt, can chatgpt be a good boyfriend, new york times, jean paul sartre, the look, the gaze, being and nothingness, alexandra kollontai, red love, existentialism, existentialist philosophy, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, internet analysis, video essay, analysis video, philosophy, movie film tv show, tiktok, twitter, shanspeare, jordan theresa, cj the x, tiffany ferg, alice cappelle, contrapoints, philosophy tube, madisyn brown, chad chad, sisyphus 55, tara mooknee, noah samsen, zoe bee, FD signifier