Not Every Spark Is A Green Flag

The spark you feel isn’t always a sign of real connection…it’s often your subconscious recognizing familiar emotional patterns and pulling you toward intensity, unpredictability, and the highs and lows you were conditioned to associate with love, which is why steady, consistent people can feel boring or lacking to an Anxious or Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style, because without that activation it doesn’t register as chemistry, but real, healthy love isn’t meant to feel like a constant emotional rollercoaster, it’s meant to feel safe, stable, and secure, and that’s something you can retrain your nervous system to choose. — Thais Gibson, your personal attachment style expert #AnxiousAttachment #FearfulAvoidant #DismissiveAvoidant #SecureAttachment #AttachmentStyles